Daniel wants to be strong. He is constantly climbing things and doing pull ups on everything he can in order to improve his strength. He eats vegetables like a champ because we told him they would make him strong.
His dad is the strongest man I know though. He moves thousands of pounds of pallets every day. He goes to school full-time. After that, he comes home and cares for Daniel and makes dinner.
Sometimes, Daniel likes to test his strength by trying to pull down on his dad's arms.
It looks like this.
This week has been a little more than a struggle. Daniel is having trouble with fighting at school. You might say he hasn't used his strength for good yet. We're doing our best and every day we move forward a little--and back a little. But every day, we're there rolling with whatever comes our way.
But some days are harder than others. And some days, we feel the stresses more than others.
We started watching Call The Midwife after Daniel goes to bed.
We sit and watch these beautiful stories unfold and both of us just let our stress melt away into a puddle of tears. It's ridiculous, hilarious, and the best therapy!
Antonio turned to me the other night with tears streaming down his face and said sweetly, "I hate this show."
And then he got me a tissue so I could blow my nose again.
I'm learning about what it is to be strong. Strength isn't being perfect. Strength is being consistent. It is being to work in the early morning hours so you can be home in the afternoon with your son while your wife finishes work.
The other night Antonio offered up the most humble prayer of supplication and gratitude. I felt his strength as he listed off our many blessings with tears of gratitude. I felt his power as he pleaded with the Lord to help us to navigate our trials.
It was a good moment. It gave me confidence that whatever we are facing, we'll have the strength to find our way through it.
We're coming up on a court trial and we're doing our best to help Daniel learn how to make friends and find happiness in school. It's tough on us in every way, but every where we turn, we find support and love.
Today, my brother Nick is here to care for Daniel while Antonio and I work. I watched from my office as Nick helped Daniel practice riding his bike without training wheels. I saw Nick's strength as he held up the bike and ran beside Daniel as he pedaled away.
Yesterday, Grandma DeAnne came over to talk with Daniel about his behavior at school. I saw her strength as she slowly climbed our stairs, despite severe pain in her hip.
We're able to meet the financial burden of the upcoming trial through the loving kindness of our family.
I wish I had the strength to do this alone. But I don't. And sometimes it takes the most strength to admit that you need help.